The Truth about being SINGLE.“Things turn out best for people who make the best out of the way things turn out.”

John Wooden


It’s my choice. I am young and not in hurry of finding the right one. I believe that being single brings a lot of benefits  and I would love to enumerate them to you, NOT to encourage  you but just sharing my random thoughts and feelings bout it since I can’t sleep…  🙂

  • SELF- AWARENESS. Being single allows me to be myself and develops who I really am. During the time I was still in a relationship, I always try myself to look as good as possible to impress my bf when in fact, I wouldn’t do it normally. 😛
  • EMOTIONALLY RELAX.  You know, I realized that being single helps me avoid those roller coaster rides of emotion. In a situation, for example, the time when I had a bf, I always thought of these things such as ” Did I hurt him?” ; “Did I say the right thing?”; “Does he still like me?” ; “What should I do next?” .The list goes on and on. My emotions complete went out of whack. In addition, being single means that you won’t have to worry about going through a heart-wrenching breakup. It’s true.. really! Now,being single allows me to stabilize my emotions.
  • TIME AND MONEY SAVER. I guess when you’re single you can save more of your time and money. When you’re single, you may have more time for yourself and things that you like to do. You can set your own schedule. Being single may give you more time for hobbies, relaxation, being with friends and family, and so on. Being single gives you more time to better yourself.  Being single allows you to spend money that you have on yourself with no guilt. Single or not, you still need to make responsible financial decisions.)  Being single may also make it easier to plan for saving money for the future and for unforeseen circumstances.
  • FREEDOM. Being single means you have more freedom. You answer to no one. If you’re single, you don’t have to let anyone know when you decide to go somewhere. 🙂
  • FRIENDSHIP.  Being single doesn’t have to mean being lonely. When you’re single, you have more time to do a variety of things, all of which are opportunities to forge new friendships.

Thus, my choice is not bad at all though I know sometimes it’s boring. However, I am glad I am able to enjoy it. ❤ xx


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